looking through me

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lawn lesson

Over the rumble of a lawnmower I can hear the neighbor two doors down instructing her son. The words are muffled, but I recognize the intonation and short, declarative statements of a lesson.

I make out a few phrases.

“Back up.”

“You’re veering left.”

“Left!”

The nine year old emits an indecipherable squeal.

“Good.”

“Stop.”

“Good job.”

As I listen to the coaching of a mom—not the lecturing or the explaining but the real-time, step-by-step directions—I realize how often I wish I could hear those quick bursts of instruction from God.

“Stop.”

“You’re veering left.”

“Back up.”

“Now!”

“Good.”

“Look at me.”

“Almost.”

“Good job.”

But it doesn’t work that way. There are no audible words as I navigate new lessons or work my way through a review of something I probably should know by now.

Or at least the words don’t come from the mouth of God. They come in the texts and emails from friends and mentors, the counsel of parents, the teaching of pastors, the encouragement of my small group. Truth is truth. God speaks through the voices He knows I’ll hear . . . if not always obey.

The lawnmower cuts off, and I realize I was listening to my neighbor’s son mow the lawn for the first time. I can almost hear the words, “Well done!”

Then I realize those are the first two words I may hear from God in His own voice someday.

 

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label vs identity

“How are you?”

It was an honest question, and the one asking wanted an honest answer. I knew the context in which it was being asked, but that context was such a small slice of my day I was afraid my answer would seem cold.

I shrugged and said, “I think I’m a little numb. It’s one more thing.”

Then I outlined the losses and changes and transitions of the last six weeks.

In a month and a half a lot of labels have been ripped off. Some left sticky residue and people will see the mark whether or not they knew me when I wore the labels. Others came off with no external trace. But all were ways I was comfortable describing myself: roles, relationships, titles, responsibilities.

It hurts to rip adhesive off skin. It hurts to change. It hurts to lose people and relationship. Transitions are uncomfortable, and multiple transitions at the same time can be disorienting. The discomfort and disorientation are real. There are emotions upon emotions.

But I’m realizing something greater. I am still me. My identity has not changed. The labels were skin deep—even if I’d worn them for decades—yet my identity is soul deep.

In the tumult of loss and newness, my identity is fixed. It is a constant amongst the variables.

So I shift my focus from the chaos to the Creator. The One in whom I am secure. The One who never looked at the labels anyway because He sees me for who I really am.

It’s still hard to articulate how I am, but it’s clear who I am.

 

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