About

I write to process . . . and sometimes I share.

In addition to sharing here, I have also written a book. My memoir Love, Laughter and Our Long Goodbye is available on Amazon in both paperback and Kindle formats.

I’m a thirty-something Southern Californian who thinks best through my fingertips whether they be tapping a keyboard or twirling a pen. And after a decade of forgetting how valuable writing is for my learning and growing I’m recommitting to the discipline of sifting through and ordering the words inside me.

These posts are not a chronicle of my days but a record of the lessons I’m learning. Perhaps some of them may connect with the lessons you are learning as well.

I’m always interested in hearing from you, too. Please feel free to comment or to email me at lookingthroughme (at) gmail (dot) com


If it isn’t obvious, my MBTI profile is ISTJ and my StrengthsFinder strengths are Intellection, Learner, Input, Context and Achiever. If that doesn’t mean anything to you, carry on. If it does, well, you probably aren’t surprised.